I have someone that I think is beyond special, however; they don't feel that way about themselves and it keeps us from being closer friends. They are so insecure and need constant reassurance, that ultimately they don't believe. I really wish that I knew how to get through to them but I know there is nothing that I can say until they are ready to see the truth.
The fact is that we are all special and we all need a little reassurance of this but no one can make you believe this about yourself until you are willing to open up and believe it yourself.
A year ago, I would have thought it was impossible to ever love another person romantically. Yet I have fallen in love and of course I didn't choose the easy path, I chose a difficult one. Honestly though, I know that when it works out, it will be amazing and so worth the effort I am putting into it.
Until now, I have only loved one man and I thought that would be it for me, I mean I am 46 but it is never too late to fall in love. As scary as it is and it is scary, I am grateful for my feelings, no matter how things turn out. Although, I believe when something is meant to be, it will be, no one can stop the inevitable.
Just remember how special you are and one day I really hope you feel it inside yourself, then you will know exactly what I see in you.