Setting The Record Straight

 
It's time for me to set the record straight once and for all... after this I won't discuss it again.  For reasons I won't go into he and I are no longer in contact, we
haven't been for quite sometime... Do I miss him? Yes... regardless if we were to never speak again, I will always consider him to be my best friend.

Next question that needs answering .... Do I want him back other than being friends? That would be no and it has been for a long time... as you all know I have dated, I will continue to date... I am looking for that kind, exciting, honest and sweet guy that will love me too.

Third, I can't believe this needs answering again as I blogged about it in the summer...  Did I lose the weight for him?  Let me make myself completely clear... I cannot lose weight for anyone but me, truthfully if I had tried to lose this weight for anyone but me, I would have failed...
I am not living in some fantasy world that he and I will ever be anything but friends, (if that).  I came up with new dreams since I needed to dream bigger... I thought it was wonderful that I was with him, now I want someone who feels that lucky to be with me.  Do I believe I deserve dreams... YES... I deserve to have all the dreams I have to come true... I will never stop dreaming, there are no limits. 

Final thought... Do I have good thoughts and memories of him?  Yes, I have good thoughts, I wish him only the best... I could never wish him less.  I want him to be happy, he seemed to be when I talked to him last. I'm happy about that.

These are my last words on this matter... whether or not people can see, I've moved onto another path (that is their issue, not mine), ... I'm looking forward to where it leads.. I know I deserve happiness....
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  1. Beautiful post! The best thing to do is to remember the wonderful moments we have with people and let go of bad memories. Stay strong sweetie! <3

    Diana
    www.ManhattanImageandStyle.com
    New Outfit Post: Denim, Plaid and Fur

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    1. Thank you Diana.. I want to remember the good things... it's not always easy... I did have some good times, but they weren't worth what I lost... :-/

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  2. lovely blog :)
    http://saltskinned.blogspot.com.au

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    1. Thank you Sayid... it had to be said...

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  4. Its okay to keep those good memories, because its always nice to reminisce.. all you can do is to look forward to the future. Wish you all the best Launna :)

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    1. Thank you Michelle... I have been looking towards the future.. some people fail to see this...

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  5. love it! wish you all the best, launna!!

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  6. remember the good and forget the bad...
    kss
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    1. Thank you Pilar... I am trying to remember the good...

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  7. You do indeed deserve to have dreams and to have happiness, Launna. Wishing you both. Sending a big cyber hug your way.

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    1. Thank you Daisy... I do deserve my dreams and happiness... thank you for the cyber hug... :)

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  8. Love your inspiring post :)

    xoxo
    http://singingthumbelina.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you Meilina, that is sweet of you to say :)

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  9. Good morning dear launna..
    I hope you find sweet guy and honest, that will really love you, makes your dreams come true!!!
    And one more don't you lost your weight just because anyone but it is because yourself!!!!

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    1. Thank you Muya... that is so very sweet of you to say...

      I wouldn't lose weight for a guy, besides it is truly not possible... I can only lose it for me..

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    2. Hehee thank you for teach me english language dear launna
      Hehehe really i don't know english.
      To read your blogs also i use google translate but now it's not available from mobile phone...
      Thank you very much

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    3. Thank you Muya... I wish the translator was available on the phone too... it is frustrating when I have long rides on the bus and I always have to wait to get home to read some of my blogs :)

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  10. Launna you are like sunshine with deep and tender soul, you deserve the best, the best man who will value and cherish you! If you haven't find yet it means only one - your happiness is somewhere around the corner, it's waiting for you to become more valuable and give you more enjoyment! He... he is a good experience and he gave you space to go ahead to catch your dream!

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    1. Thank you Lavenderloafers, the experience of loving him was so not worth losing him... I lost my best friend... :-/

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  11. AWESOME!!!! I'm so happy that you know what you want and you're going for it!!! I celebrate you!!! Wonderful!!!

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    1. Thank you Suzanne... you are such a sweetheart :)

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  12. YES you do deserve all your dreams to come true, my friend. All of them.

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    1. Thank you Keith, I do deserve them and I am not giving up until I have attained all my dreams:)

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  13. Thank You for visiting my blog I am now following you on Bloglovin as well.
    xoxo
    Beautetude

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  14. Keep dreaming my dear Launna, because you deserve all the happiness you desire!!
    I am sure that will come soon!!
    Kisses & hugs, sincerely Paola.

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    1. Thank you my sweet Paola... I do deserve happiness... I am going after it now:) <3 xox

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  15. As my dearest friend is fond of saying "It is your journey -- only you can drive". Ignore what other people say -- they don't know what is in your heart and soul, only you do. You will find your happiness!

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    1. Thank you Kc... it's true... only I know what's in my heart, I can't make other people see the truth...

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  16. I am happy to see you are moving on with your life and doing things for yourself. This is always a good thing, you need to focus on you, then everything else falls into place

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    1. Thank you Rachel, I have been focusing on me for quite some time... hence why I had to write this post... a lot of people didn't know that... they thought I was sitting around waiting... I have much better things to do. :)

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  17. This is so honest of you Luanna and a lot of women I'm sure think these same thoughts, they might not be brave enough to admit. I wish you all the happiness and it sounds like you're taking the positive out of it so hopefully this will be a great time to focus on you. :) You deserve it.

    xoDale
    www.savvyspice.com

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    1. Thank you Dale, I didn't think I would have to write this to show people I was moving on but unfortunately people need to hear it directly :)

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  18. this is really such an honest post, I have a friend dealing with this sort of matter too.




    xoxo;
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    1. Thank you Glitter Daily... I didn't want to have to write it but there are people who think I haven't moved on... they are wrong...

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  19. You deserve all the bigest dreams darling! :)

    xoxo
    It's Dash

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    1. Thank you Dascha... I deserve all my dreams and so does everyone else... :)

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  20. Launna these quotes look gorgeous
    I posted a new article, I'd love to know your opinion
    would you like to pass from my blog?
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    kiss

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    1. Thank you Tr3nDyGiRL, I will be by to visit your blog :)

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    1. Thank you Laura, have a wonderful week too :)

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  22. Keep dreaming sweety! You deserve happiness!
    Have a wonderful day!

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    1. Thank you getcarriedaway... I will never stop dreaming... :)

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  23. What an awesome post, beautiful and forthright, like the strong woman you are. I am sorry that people made you feel you had to state the case again. I guess it gave you a chance for a little more positive reinforcement of your goals. I know you will find the partner that deserves you now that you have begun to realize your own worth. You have so very much to offer and deserve the very best in return. You go girl.

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    1. Thank you Cindy, that is nice of you to say... ;)

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  24. very well said dear! :) make your past an experience. you're stronger now. and yes, you deserve to be happy. You're beautiful inside and out. :)) wishing you all the best in life Launna! God bless! :))

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    1. Thank you so much RaeAbigael... I wish you the same :)

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  25. The best of all for you now and your brightness future Launna. From the really bottom of heart goes for you, I wish you have a blessed week so far. :)..

    http://www.attraction2fashion.com

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    1. Awe thank you Tanya... you made me cry... I hope you have an amazing week too :)

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  26. Good for you, Launna. I wish you nothing but the best! Go after your future and goals!
    www.amemoryofus.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you Darcy, I am going after every last goal I have :)

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    1. Thank you Joy, I wish that I had not lost so much to gain so little... :-/

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    1. Thank you Simera, have a lovely day too :)

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  29. Aww you definitely deserve happiness. There's a wonderful quote by Marilyn Monroe, where she says sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come together.

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    1. Thank you Lesley, than this should be something incredible...

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    1. Thank you Paola, Happy rest of the week... xox <3

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  31. Beautiful post Launna!! I can totally feel you!! Sometimes, it is just better to move away, and then anyway, anything that happens. happens for a reason! I am very sure there is something good in store for you!! Just be positive, like how you've always been!! <3 Much love xoxo

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    1. Thank you Anshul... I would love to know this reason... amazing better be in store for me...

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  32. Great post dear :)

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    Kiss Tea

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  33. lovely blog :)
    http://saltskinned.blogspot.com.au

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  34. Well, kudos to you for being so honest about all these things. At least you really know yourself. A lot of people are in denial about certain things, and not just towards others but also to themselves. It's clear that you see things very clearly :-)

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    1. Thank you Kissandmakeup... I'm not in denial like some people think I am... I think my posts prove that over the past couple of months...

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  35. Lovely post. Sure you have a right to dream. Dream beautiful and big. No limits:)

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    1. Thank you so much Munir.. you are you so sweet... ;-) ♡

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  36. Thanks for your sweet comment on my blog!
    Believe in it and you will find de right guy for you!

    XxX
    http://fabulousstylews.blogspot.com
    www.facebook.nl/fabulousstylews

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    1. Thank you Wendy and you are very welcome ;-)

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  37. I just found your blog and think it's awesome that you're so passionate about life! It sucks to have to explain and reexplain yourself to doubters. I like your quote at the end, though :) I'm following your blog, btw! ♥

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    1. Thank you Galaxia, the quote at the end is mine :) ... You are very sweet :)

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  38. Lovely post launna

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    Fashion room lounge

    A chic kiss ;)

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  39. Dream (and live!) those big dreams, Launna! That is totally what life is about. Cheering you on over here!!

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    1. Thank you Rosey, finally I am dreaming bigger than I ever have :)

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  40. amazing quotes! i hope you can achieve what you dream of <3

    Letters To Juliet

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    1. Thank you Mitha, I will achieve what I dream of :)

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    1. Thank you Laura, I hope you have an amazing day too :)

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    1. Thank you Dolores... truthfully we all deserve to be happy :)

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  43. I thought for a while that he was out of your life. I noticed you hadn't mentioned him for a while. I thought that was probably what you were going through and causing you the sleepless nights. I wish you the best in your dating life. I am sure you will find someone great that will cherish you and make you feel like you are the treasure in his life. It will come! I have always felt like your weight loss was for you, as well as, the growth you have achieved through your determination to win the battle with you weight. You are a warrior!!!

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    1. Thank you Betty, I thought most people recognized that I had stopped writing about him for sometime... would then be aware that I was not pining away for him.... apparently that was not the way some people saw it, so I felt it was best to say it like it is... Like I said, regardless of what happens in the future, I will always think of him as my best friend and wish him all the best :)

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  44. Nr. 3 is a important Answer ,it is a good Way!

    Much love ,kisses <3

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    1. Thank you LoveT. it is the truth... we honestly cannot lose weight for someone else and be a success... the reason I have been so successful is because I did this for myself and I learned to love myself where I am :)

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  45. Great post dear, always good to look towards the future but always keep the memories. Kisses from Kenya

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    1. Thank you Glamour Zone, I always enjoy your comments :)

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  46. I love that you're being so open and real about a tough situation. You're obviously a smart and loving person to be wishing him well. There are too many women out there that constantly seek revenge and because of that, don't find happiness.

    xo Azu

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    1. Thank you Azu... you see, I could never intentionally hurt him... it is just not in me.. I just wanted to make it perfectly clear where I am now and where I have been for a while... some people felt differently...

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  47. Hello:) You have a really lovely blog here, and I'm following you now!

    www.lightsforana.blogspot.com

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  48. Kepp strong my dear!!! I know your feeling…isn't simple, but you can do it!!
    A big kiss
    Hilary

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    1. Thank you sweet Paola, have a lovely too xox <3

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  50. You are doing a great job!

    -Caroline
    http://beautifulmagasin.blogspot.dk

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  51. You deserve to dream big dear Launna and I wish all your dreams come true!! <3

    Kisses and hugs
    Charu
    http://www.myglossyaffair.com/

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    1. Thank you Charu... we should all dream... and dream big♥

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  52. I just love saying images ! Amazing!

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  53. Hi Launna
    have a nice day
    I posted a new article, I'd love to know your opinion
    would you like to pass from my blog?
    tr3ndygirl.com
    kiss

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    1. Thank you Tr3nDyGiRL, I will be by later to visit :)

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  54. Amiga passando para ti deseja um dia maravilhoso.
    Blog: http://arrasandonobatomvermelho.blogspot.com.br

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    1. Thank you Nequeren, I wish you a wonderful day too :)

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  55. Just found your inspirational blog! I too love a good quote or two and try to make my life the best, not always easy but you seem to be on your way! Con grate! Please step by my blog if you´d like! xo Caroline

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    1. Thank you Caroline, I certainly will drop by your blog :)

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  56. Wow! What can I say? ... intimidates me! Plots look!
    Great post! I congratulate the ability and talent to curiosity to me!
    I will always be coming back for more: *


    Regards,
    Katherine Unique


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  57. I wish you all the best, Launna ^^ best in everything!

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    1. Thank you Inge... I feel good since I have written this, I thought it was pretty clear for many months but apparently it wasn't, so now it is :)

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  58. Keep moving forward and looking towards the future Launa, there are great things waiting for you. xx

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    1. Thank you Kenya... everyone will see that I will get what I now dream of :)

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    1. Thank you Simera, you have a lovely weekend too :)

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    1. Thank you Habanero, happy Friday to you too :)

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  62. Lot of love to you hun!

    Carolina

    www.the-world-c.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you Carolina... lots of love from me too xox ♡

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  63. Hi Launna...wishing you a gentle day......I got to dash to take the kids to appointments but wanted to first pop by and let you know, I'm here, in your corner....cheering you on.

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    1. Thank you Nikki... you are the sweetest ♡

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  64. Everyone deserves to be happy Launa <3 So I wish you do find happiness soon enough ,,


    xoxo Chaicy - Style..A Pastiche!

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    1. Thank you Chaicy... I agree everyone deserves happiness :)

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  65. hi LAUNNA
    i repass from your blog :) have a nice day
    I posted a new article, I'd love to know your opinion
    would you like to pass from my blog?
    tr3ndygirl.com
    kiss

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    1. Thank you Tr3nDyGiRL, I will be by to visit :)

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  66. Good for you. Your determination and clarity of mind are admirable. Now that you're open to joy and love again, how can it resist you?

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    1. Thank you Susan... that is what I am banking on... I am open for joy and love... I will draw it me.. :)

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    1. Thank you Laura, have a good weekend too :)

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  69. Verdade! Hidratantes labiais são indispensáveis, né?! ;)

    Independente de qualquer coisa, o que importa é estar bem!

    Ótimo sábado, Launna!

    Beijo! ^^

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    1. Thank you Amanda... being well is what is important... have a lovely weekend :)

      Obrigado Amanda ... estar bem é o que é importante ... ter um belo fim de semana :)

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  70. You did have some wonderful memories at the time Launna, and you can always look back and smile. But as time moves on, with have to do the same otherwise we end up stuck in a bubble. Glad you're on a nice new track and you never know what's around the corner. All the best.

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    1. Thank you Rum-Punch... I have the best memories ever of him and me that make me smile... but I have moved on... it had to be said...

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  71. Have a great week end!

    http://ladyparisienne.blogspot.fr/

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    1. Thank you Barbara, have a great weekend too :)

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  72. I wish you all the best!! You deserve it!! :)

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    1. Thank you Anita, we all deserve the best :)

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  73. whatever decision you make, you deserve some peace and happiness. Whether you will get it from him or from someone else! There was wonderful memories but also memories that you can't forgive and forget. I wish you all the best!

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    1. Thank you Pop... I can never forget the beautiful memories we had... no one touched me quite so deeply in my life... we all deserve peace and happiness... I could never wish him less...

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  74. wish you a wonderful day!

    <3
    http://www.getcarriedaway.net/

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    1. Thank you getcarriedaway, I hope you have a wonderful day too :)

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  75. Most of the time I do rely on my gut feelings. Sometimes my elders would not agree, but a lot of times my friends did.

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    1. Thank you Munir.. we need to do what we know is best for us... :)

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  76. i like the second quoet dear :D

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    1. Thank you Putri... I love that quote too... it says so much I cannot say :-/

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    1. Thank you Anna... I love that quote... some people forget everything... I remember it all...

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  78. thanks for your kind thoughts!! you're so great at keeping up with everyone's blogs =)


    www.lesley-kim.com

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    1. Thank you Lesley and you are very welcome :)

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  79. Hey! nice blog! im now following you with gfc, can you follow me back please? :)

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  80. Hello Launna!!
    The memory is emotions and its dificult to be selective with this. If you had a bad a moment with a person, no matter if you only want to remember the best moments, the worst will come with their, so in my case i just trash it all and starting the new, without the past :) (forgive my english, trying to do it better)
    Kisses

    http://alissagromova.blogspot.com/
    https://www.facebook.com/pages/Moda-Sexo-Arte/1462172447327605

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    1. Thank you Alissa... if I had a bad memory of him... this would all be so much easier.. instead things were messed up because of my sadness I had and now that has haunted the present... all I wanted was to clear the air...

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  81. I agree with so much that you write. You must do things for yourself and not others and I respect that about you.

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  82. yup respect is something you should have always !!! lovely article

    btw do check out my new post
    stay in touch
    xoxo

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  83. Have a amazing Sunday Launna <3 ,kisses :*

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