Letting Go To Heal

"Healing may not be so much about getting better, as about letting go of everything that isn't you - all of the expectations, all of the beliefs - and becoming who you are."- Rachel Naomi Remen

Each day has been a day to learn how to deal with the pain, it has become less but it's still been difficult.  Living with this kind of weakness and pain has been hard to focus on what really matters, I am trying to handle it all and grow above it.

Not that I haven't been grateful for my health, I have been. I still am, even though it's been more challenging.  Coming through this will and can only strengthen me!  This will help me to remember how blessed I am once I actually get through to the other side. 

This weekend past was another one to rest, another one to think about what I want and how I have to go about it to attain it.  Some dreams I have to give up on, so that I can live the life I'm meant to live; I have to believe that things will work out as they were meant to. 

Some things in life throw us curves to see how much we want what our heart desires.  I lost my focus due to seeing my hopes and dreams destroyed when they were so close at hand.  What I've been wishing, dreaming and hoping is a good and righteous dream, something good that I more than deserve.

The difficult days we experience can become the driving force for change. Rather than becoming victimized by adversity, we can choose to be grateful for it, embracing it as a gift from the Divine. ~ Dr. Terry Gordon

"Everything you want, also wants you" ~ Jack Canfield 


  1. sometimes, the only way for us to learn is to feel some pain along the way

  2. Isn't that sad Sayid... too bad we could not learn more easy so as not to feel the pain :(

  3. I entirely agree Launa. Setting free is the best thing to do. Hard but not impossible.

  4. Through the bad sometimes comes the best of things on the other side. Things we wouldn't have been able to appreciate without it. I'll keep you in my thoughts Launna as you heal. :-)

  5. Thank you Petronela, setting fee is hard, very hard but you are right, not impossible.

  6. Awe thank you Jenn, I really appreciate that... I will keep you in my thoughts as well :)

  7. I know what you mean about losing focus and about letting go of some things so that you can move on. Things will work out with patience, but patience isn't always easy in coming.

  8. Thank you Daisy, patience is not one of my virtues... I work on it daily though:)


I love and appreciate all genuine comments, to save a little time, I won't be commenting on the comments on my blog (unless you don't have a blog), I will just visit your blog and comment there, if you have left a meaningful comment for me... I would much rather spend the time reading and commenting on a few extra blogs ❤