Dating With Self Esteem

The only thing that matters now is my mission.  Nothing will stand in the way anymore.

First I am not sure why I decided to start dating... a spur of the moment thing... lack of sleep... insanity...a little of all three. I think it's stupid for me to date when I'm still in love with my David... I wish I wasn't but I am..

I've only been out there for less then a week... I want to say what kind of freaks are out there?... Geesh... The first guy with no picture who started talking to me, after 30 minutes he is asking me to go to his cabin on Friday night... yeah.. NO! (Psycho)   The second guy I talked to for 30 minutes gave me his phone number... Really??? He didn't get mine. (Desperate)  How about the third guy who wanted me to call him, when I said no, he said if you don't me call tonight, we will never talk again... Okay...  I said, let me make this easy for you, we can stop talking right now (Controlling).  Oh and my personal favorite, the guy who offered to send me pictures of his body parts... Yeah...NO... I did not give him my email. (He needs a hobby and a life)

I had to say a few times to guys, do you all have nothing better to talk about?  I was purely going on this site to date, go out for a walk, dance, dinner, sporting events... something fun.  Let's not forget to mention all the men who put pictures up...who should not have... I am not all about the physical but some of these were just scary WOW!! ... Oh yes and the married men, looking for a fling... Get divorced, oh and we still won't talk. If this is a sampling of what is out there and what is to come.... I'm passing on it. All I can say is I have my full self esteem... I'm not desperate... I'm not interested in losers who are A) married  B) unemployed and or C) not interested in changing themselves.... Get a life and don't get back to me.
I have a busy full life, I work.. I'm a mama, I exercise, I blog.... I do not spend a lot of time watching TV... or playing games on the internet. Now I'm going to start my book too.. .. I actually know I don't have time to date... I am finished with the foolishness.  I decided that I need to take a break away from dating, from social media and from blogging.  I need to get some priorities straight....

1)  I need to organize my exercise better, I want to get to my goal weight by February, this includes starting strength training.  This means I have to give up other things to get myself in the best shape possible.

2) I need to move, I do not want to be living in this place at the beginning of 2014.  This means I have to really start looking, going to see places.  Then de cluttering my place some more .

3) I want to start the outline of my book, if I don't put it as top importance, I will never get started.

I have been taking Zumba, plus swimming and still walking a bit... I need to make exercise one of the top priorities, it will be more difficult to take off the last 30 pounds I want to lose than it was the first 58 that I have lost.  Plus I do not want to ever go back to the way I ate or lived my life, that is the trap that often happens. People seem to be able to lose the weight but don't maintain it because they don't keep the changes in their lifestyle, this is how I want to live forever.
If anyone wants to contact me, I will still be checking my email tweety_pie_36@hotmail.com  Please feel free to drop me a line, I would love to hear from you.  I am deleting my apps off my phone for a while, I can always re download them when I am ready. I really just need to get my head and heart into a better place... I have been off center for a long time.  I know this will be good for me to really focus on a few things I need to complete... then I can come back refreshed.  I will miss every single blog I read and comment on... I know I will be able to catch up when I get back... I am not sure how long I will be gone, a little longer than I normally go for but I really need to make some changes.  I hope you all understand and come back once I am posting again... I am hoping I will be down under 200 by the time I get back, I will do a post on it, to catch you up...

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    1. Thank you so much Jaimie, you are such a sweetie... I love your blog and I felt like a kindred spirit with you when I first read your blog...I will always read what your write :)

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  2. I can see that you've got loads on your mind and many things to sort out. As much as I'd love you to stick around, you've got to make time for all your priorities. I'm gonna miss you too Launna but I know you'll be back even stronger than before.
    Give me a shout when you return and take care mate.

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    1. Thank you Rum-Punch, I have and do have lots on my mind... I am coming back soon, I have missed blogging. I have been reading everyone's post but not commenting... I miss commenting :)

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  3. I just met your blog and is so pretty. I invite you to visit my blog and if you want follow me on blogger! Kisses :)

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    1. Thank you Laura, I have added you on Bloglovin.... once I am back blogging I will follow you on other sites too;-)

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  4. I selfishly hope you don't stay gone from Blogger too long. But I understand everyone needs a break once in a while :)

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  5. I wish you the best of luck! I hope everything falls into place. =]

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    1. Thank you Sarah... I hope everything falls into place too ;-)

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  6. Good Luck! You can accomplish anything you set your mind on -- as you've already proven!

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    1. Thank you Kc... I really appreciate your faith in me ;-)

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  7. good luck with everything you do :)

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  8. Best of luck Launna :)

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  9. Take all the time you need, Launna. We will still be here when you come back. It is important to take care of yourself. Good luck in reaching your goals!

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  10. I was smiling through all those dating stories. Glad you didn't go out with any of them. I think it's awesome you are making all of these positive changes in your life. You are getting stronger every day!

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    1. Thank you Marcia... those guys were scary... ewwww :-)

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  11. such a great and honest post, wishing you the best!

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  12. Ah, you've entered the dating game, I remember it well, and have witnessed it first hand w/good friends. The good news... there are still wonderful date prospects out there. The not so good news, there's a lot of frogs too. :)

    Good luck with the book outline (and hurrah! That's awesome!)

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    1. Thank you so much Rosey... I am leaving the dating scene... ewww ;-) ...

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  13. Great! I keep my fingers crossed for success!
    Are you sure you can do it! I hope you share with me your books: *


    Regards,
    Katherine Unique


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    1. Thank you so much Katherine... I will share my book ;-)

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  14. It sounds like you have your priorities figured out. :) Best of luck with everything!!

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    1. Thank you Camille... I wish I had my priorities right ;-)

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  15. You have a lot of plans, it sounds like a busy but great time! A book, that sounds so exciting! And moving to a new place, that's a big step.
    Good luck with everything!! x

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    1. Thank you Marion.. I have a lot of plans.... I have to scale down a little;-)

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  16. (; Reb, xoxo.

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    1. Thank you Reb.... I'll be by to visit your blog soon :-)

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  17. Yup - that first paragraph freaks me out too. Sounds like you need to adjust those settings if there's a such thing to weed out the freaks.

    Just want to make sure you received my e-mail with the draft outline for writing a book...

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    1. Thank you Kenya... those guys freaked me out too... strange people :-)

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    1. Thank you Blond... I'm following you now... I'll be bu to visit you soon :-)

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  19. Omg! The only description of those guys scared me! I'm glad you know your priorities and stay busy. You don't need creepy guys around ;) Keep working on your fabulous goal Launna :)
    xx

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    1. Thank you Deb... those guys were beyond odd ;-)

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  20. you are amazing Girl...love how you stayed true to you with those weird guys. And hugs...tons of them.

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    1. Thank you Nikki... they really were weird. Tons of hugs to you too girl ;-)

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  21. Launna! You are doing a super organize and treat yourself well. I am proud to get to know you, yes I am. I wont even let those guys bother my healthy life, NOOO. They not worth for! and you did the right thing to staying away those three and more out there. I wish your book's project is smooth and ready for you to work on soon, Happy Weekend to you!

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    1. Thank you Tanya... I'll be back soon posting and commenting ;-) You are such a sweetie, your comments always make me smile :-)

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