Love Is Written In The Heart



“Love is not written on paper, for paper can be erased. Nor is it etched on stone, for stone can be broken. But it is inscribed on a heart and there it shall remain forever.”

Have you ever known someone with you heart?  You know where you can say anything to them and you feel safe that they will take it as it's intended.  I've only known one person like that, my David.  I can joke around and tease him, when he puts up an embarrassed face, I can call him out and say haha, you do not embarrass easily, remember I know you? lol.

When I do that he's like, yes you do know me, haha.  People that don't know each other are never sure that what they say may be taken out of context.  It's awesome to feel safe with someone where you know you can say anything and everything.  I know there are people that have this, I was not lucky enough to have this all my life.

I always wanted it, that emotional connection where you just know and feel the other person.  No words are necessary, although the words are abundant.  The conversation is never boring (I'm too interesting to be boring, lol). Having someone who cheers on all your accomplishments, someone who truly loves you for you. 

I realized something last night that makes me smile now.  I started panicking, getting out of control; I finally gave myself a 'mindful smack' (as Mastin would say).  I figured out that the closer that I get to my goals the more opposition I receive.  It just shows me that I'm on the right path, otherwise I'd have no opposition.

Opposition brings rewards, the more opposition, the more rewards ;).



10 comments :

  1. Having people to show us how special we are very good. Constructive criticism helps us to live well.We can not despair. Have those who know us and are accepted as is fascinating!

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  2. I think we have enough negativism in our lives, it is wonderful to have someone who accepts me just as I am... I do the same for him:)

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  3. When we can talk each other heart to heart, sometimes we don't need words too much. Word becomes a mere word, because heart understands the true meaning of it better

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  4. I always think of the movie, 'Butcher's Wife' and the story about the 'split-aparts'. Beings that were separated from their other half and spend their lives trying to find them. Those who find their other half are totally happy and contented. I'm so glad you found your other half. Your 'split-apart'.

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    1. David really is my split-apart :) I felt lost without him and when he finally showed up in my life again, I felt like I was complete.... and it's not like I am not whole without him as I truly am but he fills something up inside me:)

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  5. I do belief this connection happens with first ourselves and then friends and partners. I have a dear friend who we can totally be ourselves and now that I'm comfortable with myself everything is expressed. I love your post and how you always take an honest look at who you are. We are the seekers of life!!! Let us celebrate how fabulous we all are!!!
    Big hug

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    1. Thank you Suzanne and I really agree with what you say, I was connecting with myself before David showed up which made me ready to connect with him. He made it easy though, I can tell him anything, anything at all, there is not one ounce of judgement in his body or soul towards me. He loves me for me... I love him for him... :)

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  6. I know exactly what you mean. I know my husband with my heart and I got to learn that only recently, during the past year, while we've been apart most of the time. Distance make us smarter and more sensitive.

    Kiss

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    1. Exactly Petro, I feel blessed to have connected with David as we know each other without having to say any words and that is amazing as I am sure that is wonderful for you too:)

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